Finding Balance in Self-Care

Finding Balance in Self-Care

by | Mar 10, 2025 | Self-care

How Modesty Helps Us Avoid Extremes

Self-care is essential to maintaining physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Yet, it’s easy to fall into extremes—either neglecting our needs entirely or overindulging in unsustainable ways. The virtue of modesty provides a middle path, guiding us toward balanced, realistic self-care that nourishes us without excess or guilt.

What Does Modest Self-Care Look Like Compared to Self-Indulgence?

Modest self-care involves intentional, sustainable choices that support our well-being without becoming excessive or self-indulgent. While self-care is necessary, it can sometimes become overindulgent if it becomes an excuse for neglecting responsibilities or seeking comfort in ways that don’t truly restore us.

      • Modest Self-Care: A 10-minute walk, journaling for clarity, prioritizing rest, or enjoying a simple pleasure like a cup of tea.
      • Self-Indulgence: Binge-watching shows for hours instead of addressing stressors, overspending on luxuries in the name of self-care, or avoiding responsibilities under the guise of “taking a break.”

The key difference? Modest self-care leaves you feeling refreshed and balanced, while self-indulgence often leads to guilt or dissatisfaction.

How Do We Know When Self-Care Is Excessive or Unrealistic?

Finding balance involves acknowledging when our self-care routines start to become excessive. Consider these questions:

      • Is this self-care improving my long-term well-being or just offering short-term relief?
      • Does this habit align with my values, or is it becoming an escape?
      • Am I neglecting essential responsibilities under the name of self-care?
      • Do I feel recharged afterward, or do I still feel drained and unfulfilled?

When self-care becomes excessive, it often lacks boundaries and purpose. A modest approach ensures that our self-care choices fit naturally within our lives without creating unnecessary stress, guilt, or avoidance of reality.

How Can Modesty Help Us Focus on Progress Instead of Perfection?

One of the biggest challenges in self-care is the pressure to do it “perfectly.” Modesty teaches us that progress is more important than perfection. Instead of feeling discouraged when we miss a workout or don’t meditate daily, we can adopt a gentle, flexible approach that accommodates life’s unpredictability.

Ways to Practice Modest, Progress-Focused Self-Care:

      • Set Reachable Goals – Instead of aiming for an hour-long workout, commit to 10 minutes of movement and build from there.
      • Embrace “Good Enough” – Self-care might sometimes mean deep breathing for two minutes instead of an entire morning routine. That’s okay!
      • Listen to Your Needs – Some days require rest; others require activity. Modest self-care allows for adjustments based on what your body and mind need.
      • Avoid Comparison – Your self-care routine doesn’t need to resemble anyone else’s. Focus on what works best for you without succumbing to the pressure of unrealistic standards.

A Final Thought: Self-Care as a Lifelong Practice

Self-care should be a lifelong practice, not an occasional luxury or a task to conquer. The virtue of modesty enables us to approach self-care with balance, sustainability, and self-compassion—ensuring we care for ourselves in ways that are realistic, meaningful, and truly restorative.

Reflection Question:

What is one small, modest self-care habit you can start today that feels doable and fulfilling?

Joe is a husband, father, grandfather, author, speaker, educator, course creator, and parent/family coach.

He helps parents develop unity, find clarity, communicate, and develop consistency in their parenting with the Four C’s of Successful Families. You can find his work on social media.

In addition, the Four C’s newsletter is enjoyed by many as it encourages parents to self-care, build their relationships with their partners, and raise their children. 

And he loves to golf! 

Joseph Michael
Love and Boundaries Create Healthy Relationships

Love and Boundaries Create Healthy Relationships

by | Feb 25, 2025 | Parenting, Relationships, Self-care, Virtues

Love is often thought of as limitless—an open, giving force that knows no bounds. And yet, the healthiest expressions of love exist within clear and respectful boundaries. Contrary to what some might believe, boundaries do not limit love; they protect and sustain it. When love and boundaries work together, they create relationships rooted in trust, respect, and emotional well-being.

So how do love and boundaries complement each other, and how can we apply them in our family and community relationships?

What Are Boundaries, and Why Do They Matter?

Boundaries are the personal guidelines we establish to protect our physical, emotional, and mental well-being. They define what is acceptable and what is not in our relationships. Healthy boundaries help us:

      • Maintain our sense of self while loving others
      • Prevent resentment and burnout
      • Communicate our needs effectively
      • Create a safe and respectful environment

When we set boundaries, we are not withholding love; we are ensuring that love is sustainable, mutual, and nurturing rather than overwhelming, one-sided, or harmful.

Love Without Boundaries: The Risk of Overgiving

When love exists without boundaries, it can lead to unhealthy dynamics:

      • Parental Overgiving: Parents who don’t set limits may struggle with discipline, leading to a lack of structure in their children’s lives. They may also sacrifice their own well-being to “keep the peace,” which can lead to burnout.
      • Friendships Without Balance: A friendship where one person is always giving and the other is always taking can create resentment over time.
      • Romantic Relationships Without Respect: If one partner continually sacrifices their needs or accepts harmful behaviors in the name of love, the relationship can become unhealthy or even toxic.

Love, without boundaries, can become exhausting. Instead of being a force that nurtures both people, it turns into an obligation or burden.

Boundaries Without Love: The Risk of Isolation

While boundaries are essential, they must be balanced with love. If we set rigid, unyielding boundaries without care, we may push people away rather than build strong connections.

For example:

      • A parent who is too strict without warmth may create fear instead of trust.
      • A person who sets harsh boundaries without compassion may come across as distant or unapproachable.
      • A community that values rules over relationships may struggle to foster genuine belonging.

The key is balance—boundaries should be rooted in love, and love should be protected by healthy boundaries.

How Love and Boundaries Work Together

1. Love Provides the Foundation, Boundaries Provide the Structure

Think of love as the foundation of a home and boundaries as the walls. The foundation makes the home strong, but the walls provide safety and security. In relationships, love is what connects us, and boundaries define how we interact in ways that protect and honor one another.

For example, a parent may deeply love their child but still set limits on screen time, bedtime, or respectful communication. The child may not always like these boundaries, but they create a secure, loving environment.

2. Boundaries Communicate Love and Respect

Clear boundaries communicate to others:

      • “I value our relationship enough to be honest about my needs.”
      • “I love and respect myself enough to set limits.”
      • “I care about you enough to ensure our relationship is mutually respectful.”

For instance, in a friendship, setting a boundary might mean saying, “I love being there for you, but I also need time to recharge. Let’s plan a time to talk instead of texting late at night.” This ensures both people’s needs are respected.

3. Love Gives Boundaries Their Flexibility

While boundaries should be clear, they should also be flexible when appropriate. Love allows us to adapt our boundaries with wisdom and discernment.

For example, a couple may have a general boundary about personal space but recognize that during difficult times, more closeness and reassurance are needed. A parent may have firm rules but also show compassion when a child is struggling.

Practical Ways to Balance Love and Boundaries

      • Know Your Own Needs and Limits – Reflect on what is important for your well-being. Do you need alone time? Clear communication? Emotional honesty? Define what makes you feel valued and respected in relationships.
      • Communicate Boundaries with Kindness – Boundaries should be expressed with warmth and clarity. Instead of saying, “Stop bothering me,” try “I need some quiet time right now, but I’d love to connect later.”
      • Be Consistent, but Compassionate – Healthy boundaries are not about control; they are about care. Consistency is key, but always allow room for understanding.
      • Teach Children That Love and Boundaries Go Together – Model for your children that saying “no” doesn’t mean you don’t love someone. Show them how to respect others’ boundaries while also standing firm in their own.
      • Recognize That Boundaries Protect Relationships – Setting a boundary does not mean rejecting someone; it means honoring the relationship by ensuring it is built on mutual respect.

Love Flourishes Within Healthy Boundaries

When love and boundaries work together, relationships become healthier, stronger, and more fulfilling. Love without boundaries leads to exhaustion; boundaries without love lead to isolation. But when we cultivate both, we create relationships that are safe, nurturing, and lasting.

Boundaries are not a barrier to love—they are the structure that allows love to thrive. By setting and respecting healthy limits, we can build relationships that are full of trust, joy, and deep connection.

Reflection Question: Are there relationships that need boundaries in your life?

Joe is a husband, father, grandfather, author, speaker, educator, course creator, and parent/family coach.

He helps parents develop unity, find clarity, communicate, and develop consistency in their parenting with the Four C’s of Successful Families. You can find his work on social media.

In addition, the Four C’s newsletter is enjoyed by many as it encourages parents to self-care, build their relationships with their partners, and raise their children. 

And he loves to golf! 

Joseph Michael

Love on Your Plate: How Eating Right is an Act of Self-Love

Love on Your Plate: How Eating Right is an Act of Self-Love

by | Feb 7, 2025 | Self-care

Why Love Starts with You

Parenting is an all-consuming act of love. From the moment you wake up to the moment you (finally) collapse into bed, you’re pouring love into your children—packing lunches, reminding them to eat their veggies, and ensuring they get all the nourishment they need.

But here’s the big question: Are you doing the same for yourself?

Many parents (especially moms and dads in the trenches of daily chaos) prioritize their children’s meals while surviving on caffeine, cold leftovers, or a quick snack grabbed on the go. It’s time for a perspective shift—because eating well is one of the purest forms of self-love.

Loving yourself through food isn’t about weight loss, strict diets, or meal perfection. It’s about treating yourself with the same care, patience, and nourishment you give your family.

The Love-Food Connection

Love is more than an emotion—it’s an action. It’s in the little choices you make daily, including what you put on your plate.

Food has long been tied to expressions of love:
❤️ A warm, homemade meal after a long day.
❤️ A shared bowl of popcorn during a movie night.
❤️ A favorite childhood dish made “just because.”

But love through food isn’t just about giving—it’s about receiving, too. If we’re constantly nourishing others but neglecting ourselves, we’re sending the message (to our kids and ourselves) that our needs don’t matter. And that’s simply not true.

When we eat well, we show self-respect, self-care, and self-love.

Breaking the Cycle: From Neglect to Nourishment

Many parents fall into a pattern of meal neglect—skipping breakfast, snacking mindlessly, or eating whatever’s left over after the kids are done. If this sounds familiar, here are three small but powerful ways to bring more love to your plate.

1. Eat Like You Love Yourself

Ask yourself, “Would I serve this meal to my child as a nutritious, nourishing choice?” If not, why are you eating it? You deserve the same balance of protein, healthy fats, and fiber that you provide for your little ones.

💡 Try this: When preparing your child’s meal, set aside a portion for yourself. Better yet, sit down and eat together.

2. Savor, Don’t Survive

Eating on the go, standing at the counter, or scrolling while snacking disconnects us from our food. We deserve the joy of a mindful meal, just like our kids do.

💡 Try this: Even if it’s just one meal a day, sit down and eat without distractions. Notice the flavors, textures, and nourishment. This simple act is a form of self-love.

3. Prepare with Love, Not Guilt

Many parents resent meal prep, seeing it as just another chore. But what if we reframed it? Preparing a nourishing meal is an act of love—not just for your family but for yourself.

💡 Try this: Choose one meal this week that you’ll prepare with care, for YOU. Plate it beautifully, enjoy every bite, and remind yourself that you are worth the effort.

The Ripple Effect: How Your Choices Shape Your Family

Your children are watching you. When they see you prioritizing healthy, mindful eating, they learn that self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential. They see that love isn’t just something we give but also something we receive.

When you eat well, you:
✔️ Have more energy to engage with your kids.
✔️ Feel less stressed and overwhelmed.
✔️ Show them what balanced, joyful eating looks like.

Self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. And one of the easiest ways to practice it is through loving yourself on your plate.

 

This Week’s Challenge

This week, make one small shift toward self-love through food. Maybe it’s eating a real breakfast, sitting down for a meal, or simply drinking more water. Whatever it is, do it with intention, care, and love—because you deserve it.

What’s one way you can eat with love today? Drop a comment and let’s inspire each other!

Joe is a husband, father, grandfather, author, speaker, educator, course creator, and parent/family coach.

He helps parents develop unity, find clarity, communicate, and develop consistency in their parenting with the Four C’s of Successful Families. You can find his work on social media.

In addition, the Four C’s newsletter is enjoyed by many as it encourages parents to self-care, build their relationships with their partners, and raise their children. 

And he loves to golf! 

Joseph Michael

January Self-Care Tip: Get Your Sleep

January Self-Care Tip: Get Your Sleep

by | Jan 7, 2025 | Self-care

A New Year, A Unified You: Embracing Unity Through the Power of Sleep

Welcome to a fresh start! As we step into this new year, many of us are setting resolutions and dreaming of ways to make life better for ourselves and our families. Let’s start this year by focusing on something simple, impactful, and often overlooked: sleep.

You might wonder how sleep ties into our theme of unity this month. The truth is, sleep isn’t just about recharging your body—it’s a vital part of creating harmony within yourself, your relationships, and your home. Let’s explore how developing healthy sleep habits can strengthen the virtue of unity in your life.

Unity Begins With You

Unity starts from within. Think of yourself as an intricate puzzle—your mind, body, and emotions are the pieces. Without adequate sleep, those pieces don’t quite fit together. You might feel irritable, scattered, or out of sync. A well-rested you, however, is a unified you. You think more clearly, handle stress better, and bring your best self to your family and work.

Practical Tip: Start with a simple change. Go to bed 30 minutes earlier tonight. Set a calming pre-sleep routine—dim the lights, put your phone away, and try deep breathing exercises.

Strengthening the Bonds With Your Partner

It’s no secret that sleep deprivation can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts. A lack of rest leaves both parents operating on a short fuse, making small irritations feel monumental. When both partners prioritize sleep, there’s space for better communication, more patience, and deeper connection.

Practical Tip: Make a “sleep pact” with your partner. Commit to supporting each other’s rest by sharing nighttime responsibilities or establishing a no-screens rule in the bedroom.

Creating a Restful Family Rhythm

A family that sleeps together, thrives together. Well, not literally in the same bed (we all need our space!), but when the whole family values rest, it sets the stage for harmony. Kids learn by watching you—when they see you prioritizing sleep as an essential part of self-care, they’re more likely to follow suit.

Practical Tip: Build a family bedtime routine. Try winding down together with a shared activity, like reading a bedtime story or discussing one thing you’re grateful for that day.

Sleep as a Foundation for Unity

When everyone in your family is well-rested, the benefits ripple outward. You’re less likely to snap at your child for spilling their cereal or feel overwhelmed by a minor hiccup in the day. Instead, you approach challenges with patience and understanding. This shared sense of calm strengthens unity within your family and fosters a sense of teamwork and togetherness.

Practical Tip: Be mindful of consistency. Set and stick to regular bedtimes, even on weekends, to keep everyone’s internal clocks in sync.

A Year of Self-Care, One Habit at a Time

This month, let sleep be the starting point for a year of intentional self-care. Each month, we’ll explore another habit to deepen your sense of balance and unity. By focusing on one habit at a time, you’re more likely to create lasting change. 

Let’s Take the First Step Together

Tonight, commit to prioritizing sleep for yourself and your family. Light a candle, put on your comfy pajamas, and let your body and mind rest. Tomorrow, you’ll wake up feeling more aligned with yourself and ready to approach the day with unity.

Reflection Question: What’s one small adjustment you can make this week to improve your sleep routine? Whether it’s going to bed earlier, limiting caffeine, or creating a more restful bedroom environment, start small and build from there.

Here’s to a year of restful nights and harmonious days. Get our newsletter for more practical weekly tips on creating successful families, starting with self-care, building on our relationships, and parenting our children. 

Joe is a husband, father, grandfather, author, speaker, educator, course creator, and parent/family coach.

He helps parents develop unity, find clarity, communicate, and develop consistency in their parenting with the Four C’s of Successful Families. You can find his work on social media.

In addition, the Four C’s newsletter is enjoyed by many as it encourages parents to self-care, build their relationships with their partners, and raise their children. 

And he loves to golf! 

Joseph Michael
The Gentle Power of Self-Reflection: A Guide for Parents

The Gentle Power of Self-Reflection: A Guide for Parents

by | Dec 3, 2024 | Self-care

Practical Tips for Starting and Sustaining a Reflective Practice

Self-reflection is the practice of pausing to examine your thoughts, feelings, actions, and experiences. It helps you better understand yourself and your choices, providing clarity about what’s working in your life and what might need adjustment.

As the year comes to a close, many of us naturally start to look back on the months behind us, reviewing the highs and lows, triumphs and challenges. For parents, this can feel like an overwhelming task—after all, life with children often moves at lightning speed. Yet, carving out time for self-reflection is one of the most powerful acts of self-care you can give yourself. It fosters personal growth, strengthens family bonds, and helps you align your parenting choices with your values.

The Benefits of Self-Reflection for Parents

    • Clarity and Direction: Reflection helps you identify what truly matters, allowing you to prioritize your time and energy effectively.
      • Example: Reflecting on family time might reveal that your happiest moments happen during shared meals or weekend outings, encouraging you to prioritize them.
    • Improved Emotional Well-Being: By processing your emotions, reflection helps reduce stress and build resilience.
      • Example: A quick reflection might uncover hidden frustrations and help you manage them constructively before they spill over into your interactions.
    • Stronger Relationships: Reflecting on your relationships—spouse, children, friends—can guide you in nurturing deeper, more meaningful connections.
      • Example: Taking a moment to reflect on your child’s day can help you spot areas where they might need extra support or encouragement.
    • Better Parenting Choices: Self-reflection empowers you to parent more intentionally, aligning your actions with your values and long-term goals for your family.
      • Example: Reflecting on a conflict with your child might reveal an opportunity to model the virtues of patience and understanding.

Getting Started with Self-Reflection

Creating a self-reflection practice doesn’t have to be time-consuming or complicated. Here are simple, practical ways to start:

1. Set Aside Time

What to Do: Dedicate just 5-10 minutes a day or a few moments each week to reflect. Early mornings or quiet evenings work well for many parents.

Why It Works: Consistency builds the habit, and small, regular sessions are easier to sustain than lengthy, infrequent ones.

2. Use Prompts or Questions

What to Do: Start with simple, open-ended questions to guide your thinking:

What brought me joy today?

How did I handle a challenge this week?

What am I grateful for in my family life right now?

Why It Works: Prompts provide focus, making the process less intimidating and more productive.

3. Keep a Journal

What to Do: Write down your reflections in a notebook or digital app. Don’t worry about grammar or structure—just let your thoughts flow.

Why It Works: Journaling provides a record of your growth and a way to revisit and learn from past experiences.

4. Practice Mindfulness

What to Do: Pair reflection with mindfulness by sitting quietly and observing your thoughts without judgment.

Why It Works: This strengthens your awareness of the present moment and helps you approach reflection with compassion.

5. Reflect with Your Partner or Friend

What to Do: Share reflections with someone you trust. This could be a spouse, close friend, or even a small support group.

Why It Works: Talking about your experiences can deepen insights and offer new perspectives.

6. Focus on Gratitude

What to Do: End your reflections by listing three things you’re grateful for each day.

Why It Works: Gratitude shifts your mindset toward positivity and fosters resilience.

Making Self-Reflection a Habit

      • Create Reminders: Use a calendar, alarm, or sticky notes to remind you to reflect regularly.
      • Start Small: Begin with just a minute or two—over time, you’ll likely find yourself naturally wanting to extend the practice.
      • Celebrate Wins: Acknowledge the benefits of reflection as they arise, like improved patience or clarity in decision-making, to reinforce the habit.

Self-Reflection in Action

Imagine this: At the end of a busy day, you sit with a cup of tea and ask yourself, What went well today? You realize how much joy your child’s laughter brought you during a silly moment at dinner. You feel grateful for that connection and resolve to create more opportunities for play tomorrow. In just five minutes, you’ve shifted your focus from the day’s stress to its beauty—and strengthened your parenting journey.

Self-reflection is more than a tool for self-care; it’s a pathway to becoming the best version of yourself. By taking time to understand your inner world, you’re better equipped to show up for your family with intention, grace, and joy. Why not take the first step today? Your future self—and your family—will thank you.

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Joe is a husband, father, grandfather, author, speaker, educator, course creator, and parent/family coach.

He helps parents develop unity, find clarity, communicate, and develop consistency in their parenting with the Four C’s of Successful Families. You can find his work on social media.

In addition, the Four C’s newsletter is enjoyed by many as it encourages parents to self-care, build their relationships with their partners, and raise their children. 

And he loves to golf! 

Joseph Michael
Nurturing Appreciation Through Mindfulness

Nurturing Appreciation Through Mindfulness

by | Nov 5, 2024 | Self-care, Virtues

The Power of Appreciation

Appreciation is more than a polite “thank you.” It’s about recognizing and valuing the good around us—whether it’s a warm smile from a loved one, the beauty of nature, or even the comfort of a favorite blanket. This mindset improves our mood and boosts our mental and physical well-being.

Research shows that cultivating appreciation can lead to stronger relationships, improved mental health, and even better physical health. When we practice appreciation, we shift our focus from what’s lacking to what we have, creating a more positive outlook on life.

As we delve into the beautiful virtue of Appreciation, let’s explore how it intertwines with the self-care practice of Mindfulness. Together, these concepts can transform how we experience our daily lives and enhance our relationships with ourselves and others.

Mindfulness: The Art of Being Present

Mindfulness is the practice of being fully present in the moment, observing our thoughts and feelings without judgment. It encourages us to slow down and pay attention to what’s happening around us. When combined with appreciation, mindfulness helps us savor the little joys that often go unnoticed.

Imagine this: you’re enjoying a cup of coffee in the morning. Instead of scrolling through your phone, take a moment to truly experience that cup. Feel the warmth of the mug, inhale the rich aroma, and appreciate the moment of quiet. This practice transforms an ordinary ritual into a mindful experience, deepening your sense of gratitude for the simple pleasures of life.

How Mindfulness Enhances Appreciation

By incorporating mindfulness into our daily routines, we create space for appreciation to flourish. Here are some ways that practicing mindfulness can enhance your appreciation:

      • Increased Awareness: Mindfulness helps us become more aware of our surroundings and ourselves. When we slow down, we notice the beauty of everyday moments—the way sunlight filters through the trees or the sound of laughter echoing in the home. This heightened awareness fosters a deeper sense of appreciation for the present moment.
      • Reduced Stress: Practicing mindfulness can reduce stress and anxiety, allowing us to focus on what truly matters. When less stressed, we can appreciate our family life more fully. A calm mind is better equipped to recognize and celebrate the small victories, whether it’s a child’s first steps or simply a peaceful evening together.
      • Improved Relationships: Mindfulness encourages active listening and empathetic responses. When we are present in our conversations, we can appreciate the perspectives and feelings of others. This practice strengthens our relationships and helps family members feel valued and heard.
      • Gratitude for the Ordinary: Mindfulness encourages us to find joy in the ordinary. By paying attention to everyday moments—like a shared meal or a cozy evening—we can cultivate gratitude for our lives. This shift in focus can dramatically improve our overall happiness and satisfaction.

Mindfulness Practices to Foster Appreciation

Here are some simple mindfulness exercises you can try with your family to cultivate appreciation:

      • Mindful Breathing Together:  Start or end your day with a few minutes of mindful breathing. Sit comfortably, close your eyes, and take deep, intentional breaths. As you breathe in and out, focus on your body’s sensations and the rhythm of your breath. Encourage your family to express gratitude for something they notice during this practice, such as a feeling of calm or connection with one another.
      • Nature Walks:  Take family walks in nature and engage all your senses. Encourage everyone to notice the sounds, sights, and smells around them. What colors do you see? What sounds can you hear? This practice helps children and adults alike appreciate the beauty of the world.
      • Gratitude Jar:  Create a family gratitude jar where everyone can drop in notes about things they appreciate—big or small. Encourage your children to reflect on their day and write down something they’re grateful for. Reading these notes together can foster meaningful conversations and deepen feelings of appreciation.
      • Mindful Eating:  At mealtimes, practice mindful eating by slowing down and savoring each bite. Discuss the flavors and textures of the food, and express gratitude for the nourishment it provides. This practice not only promotes appreciation for food but also for the efforts that go into preparing it.
      • Visualization Exercises:  Before bedtime, guide your children through a visualization exercise where they think of a moment from their day that brought them joy. Encourage them to visualize it in detail—the sights, sounds, and feelings. This practice helps them solidify positive experiences in their minds, fostering an appreciation for everyday moments.

A Mindful Reflection

As you embrace mindfulness and appreciation this week, consider this reflection: What moment today made you smile? Take a moment to fully appreciate it, whether it’s a shared laugh with your child or a peaceful moment in nature.

By cultivating the virtues of appreciation and mindfulness together, we can enrich our lives and the lives of those around us. Let’s commit to being present, recognizing the beauty in everyday moments, and fostering a loving environment where everyone feels valued.

Joe is a husband, father, grandfather, author, speaker, educator, course creator, and parent/family coach.

He helps parents develop unity, find clarity, communicate, and develop consistency in their parenting with the Four C’s of Successful Families. You can find his work on social media.

In addition, the Four C’s newsletter is enjoyed by many as it encourages parents to self-care, build their relationships with their partners, and raise their children. 

And he loves to golf! 

Joseph Michael